Two weeks ago, I was like, “Woo! D-Man and I are finally all settled in Belfast. Now I just have to turn in my residency papers, and keep looking for dream jobs.”
But no.
Everything (aka the banks) required verification of address. D-Man and I were privately renting near the city center, and all we had was our tenancy agreement. An informal document between the house owner and ourselves. No utility bills in our names. No voter’s registration. And I was soon to become an illegal alien in the U.K. if I didn’t turn in my residency papers (which also needed a verification of address).
So we up and went through an estate agent, as the bank suggested. We moved further from the city center. We went back to the bank. Oh, but. Did I have any existing accounts in other countries? Yes. Could I mail the statements to my new address? Yes. Could I please make sure that there was movement in the accounts? Otherwise it would not be valid. Yes.
“That should do it. Otherwise, you’ll also have to wait for your utility bill to come in. 3 months from now.”
I wanted to run up to other non-EU civilians and ask them, “How? How did you manage with all of this bureaucracy?”
In the midst of the move and extra piles of paperwork (because despite popular belief, marriage to the D-Man does not officially make me a European citizen… though if I’d stayed in Spain an extra year I could have applied for my Spanish nationality *tear*) – we had our first snow day of the year!
Beautiful, beautiful snow!
Also in the process of moving, we saw what must’ve been like the fifth burnt car since we arrived.
Right. The story about the burnt cars.
A few weeks before we arrived in Belfast, it was voted by the Belfast city council that the British flag would no longer fly everyday at the city hall; it would instead be flown only on special holidays and occasions. When D-Man and I arrived, there were peaceful protests in the city led by Loyalist groups.
The following week D-Man took the dog out for a walk, and saw a great bonfire in the middle of the road. As he approached the bonfire, the police came, and hooded figures sitting on the nearby benches began throwing bricks and blocks of cement at the cop cars.
Then there were helicopters every weekend, and newly burnt cars in the mornings.
To simplify the (modern) history and politics of Northern Ireland, you have the Protestant Loyalists who are loyal to Britain, and the Nationalists who are Irish Catholic. The sectarianism in Northern Ireland dates back to the 16th century, when the Protestant settlers from Britain, under the rule of King Henry VIII, tried to convert the Irish Catholics to Protestantism.
Though the Protestant reformation had been successful in Scotland, it failed largely in Ireland, possibly due to exploitation that the Irish had faced under British rule since the 12th century. The Irish resisted the Protestant reformation for over 70 years until the English won in 1607 under the rule of Queen Elizabeth. The Catholic leaders fled (known as the Flight of the Earls), the British crown confiscated the land and passed it over to the Scottish, and the original Irish population was forced to emigrate.
I have a lot to learn about this country I’m living in. Though I spent a glorious week exploring the Republic of Ireland years ago, I’ve quickly observed that it’s very different from Northern Ireland. Northern Ireland has a different history, a different struggle, and to me, a very different ambiance and disposition. I can’t wait to know more…





What a hard start! Sending you big hugs and hoping things will get easier! Being a non-EU citizen makes things so much more complicated (I know from the many foreigners at my workplace). Fingers crossed for your job search!!! xoxo
Thanks, Leny! Things will hopefully run more smoothly once I get my residency processed.
thanks for the well-summarized history, I was always curious of how far back it went.. I knew the struggles were deep. If you watch Downton Abby (we get it here on PBS) – they touch on the british-irish struggle also through two of its characters – and that was in the 1920s. Well, it’s not sangria on the beach, but I imagine your move there is very interesting and an experience you are not likely to forget. Good luck with the paperwork, I guess similar to the southern countries!
Thank you Monique!
The conflict actually goes back even further, to the 12th century, when England was supposedly called upon for help to settle a dispute in Leinster, Ireland. The Brits came in, never left, and began colonizing Ireland. But it wasn’t until around the 16th century that the religious and cultural sectarianism really began with the forced conversion.
I’ve only seen a couple of episodes of Downton Abbey, but I enjoyed them. I’ll have to watch a few more. :)
it seems that people i know from UK/IE will share the opinions about “bureaucracy” there! :)
We all have similar issues if we’re not EU, unfortunately! :(
What’s frustrating is that it’s the fish that bites its tail. You can’t get one thing without the other, but you can’t get the other without the first! And it just goes ’round and ’round. I’ve practically been living on forums this past month.
i hate spinning around… lol
Me too. Unless there’s nice green grass to collapse on, and a warm blue sky to look at! :)
Ah man… you just keep moving forward!
One more year and Spanish citizenship, ah darn it!
Looking forward to mini Northern Irish history lessons!
Forward is the only way to go from here! I know, just. one. more. year. But D-Man said that my “empadronamiento” will help, should we move back to Spain at some point in the future.
It was nice chatting today!!
Bureaucracy is by far the worst part about living abroad! I FEEL YOUR PAIN…and am slightly bewildered that it is also this complicated in Great Britain :/
I knowwww. I want to tilt my head and say, “Heyyy. I know my country declared independence from your country a while ago, but you know, in modern day today, we’re import-export buddies, and global allies, so… how ’bout cutting me a break?” *wink*wink*.
Yeah, that’s not gonna happen.
Gosh, the red tape in Britain/Ireland is annoying. I remember when I was looking for a job in London, and was told that I had to open a bank account first. But when I wanted to open a bank account, I couldn’t because I didn’t have a permanent address/utility bill. And I couldn’t get this utility bill because I was also renting privately, and would only be able to get my own utility bill if I got a decent job and moved house! Vicious cycle I tell ya! But congrats again and hope all goes well… :)
That’s very similar to what I’m going through. To top it off, yesterday I called my bank and they said that no, they would not be able to send me my statement to an international address. Arghhhhh. Were you finally able to open one once you got a job? I’m hoping that a letter from an employer might help.
Yes eventually I got it right. I joined the expat company http://www.1stcontact.com/ that helps foreigners in the UK open Bank Accounts with NatWest Bank for a small fee. So as soon as I got the bank account open through them, the ball started rolling ;)
Thanks, I’ll give that a try!
I student Gaelic lit and Irish history in college so it’s really interesting hearing more about it from a present-day first-person view. Good luck with all the bureaucracy!
I remember you mentioned that you played Gaelic football! (Right?)
You could probably teach me a few things about Irish history! Let me know if you have any reading recommendations. ;)